Would it be gay of me to make my friend to wear cute clothes on his birthday dinner with me? Say I ask him to wear a Black Cat D.VA cosplay..Would that seem a bit gay?
In the start your making him? Which make you a not so good friend to “make” someone dress a certain way and at the end your going to ask him? But you ask all of us if it’s gay like your in middleschool and just want to fit in with the cool crowd. To each his own.
Nope! Stop worrying about social constructs or social norms. Most ignorant people follow the social constructs like pink is for girl and blue is for boys. Like the fuck I can like any color I want.